Kit Kat Take a Break!

As salam,,,

Greetings!

Yesterday, me an my friends hang out together after a long time never seen each others. Alhamdulillah, we finally meet and happy to see them.

Hari ni ak na bercerita pasal market research, pe kebende market research tu? Basically market research ni bertujuan untuk mengetahui pendapat atau komen2 pengguna seperti kite sume mengenai iklan2 di TV. Tak kisah la iklan pasal makanan ke, pencuci baju ke, minyak wangi ke. The reason why I wrote about this stuff because yesterday me and my friends had been caught up by this person and I actually didn't realize like where did she come from?. Tibe2 muncul depan mate.^^ Datang2 je trus explain kat kiteorg. She introduced to us about what she been doing and barulah kiteorg faham rupe2nyer dye sedang membuat satu research yg dipanggil market research.

She explained to us yg mereka ni sedang mencari 10 lagi org untuk mengisi borang research mereka tu. Masa tu, automatically I remembered the day when I did a research about Women and Labour in Sarawak for the Statistic subject. Masa tu ingat lagi time na cari respondents memang susah. Kiteorg buat dekat Muzium Sarawak. Waktu tu cuaca panas and mencari orang sampai terkejar2. After kiteorg finish, we actually macam berjanji pada diri sendiri yg kiteorg akan tolong org2 yg sedang buat research macam yg kiteorg buat. Time tu tersedar la kan, bukan nyer senang na cari org utk isi borang reasearch. When you have the experienced, then you know how difficult it was and you'll start to appreciate it. It was a wonderful thing doing a good deed to others. Maybe some other time, who know other peoples will help you back. ^_^

So, we agreed to help them with their research and go to their office. We then answered some questions and watched a commercial break and gave a comment about it. They planning a new commercial break for Kit Kat. First time tengok, rase pelik sebab iklan cartoon. Pastu dalam otak fikir, maybe Kit Kat nak buat pembaharuan ke instead of using real peoples why not try cartoon. Selepas tgk tu, baru la thu, iklan tu dalam pembikinan lagi and shooting pun x start lagi. That y la using cartoon. Before they aired the iklan, they want to gather feedback from the consumers. If ramai yg suke with that iklan, then they proceed with that and if not maybe they have to produce another idea to attract more peoples to eat the Kit Kat.

We spend quite a long time to fill the form sampai terlewat masuk cinema nak tengok cerite Hansel & Gretel. Tengok2 jam da pukul brape dah time tu. Itu la jugak first time lambat masuk pawagam tp nasib baik faham jalan cerita nya.huhu~ Sebenarnyer, they pay for us after we done. Macam x caye la pulak kan, senang2 je dapat duit but itu antara cara mereka untuk menghargai bantuan kite. Tengok syarikat, kalo syarikat tu besar,  maka banyak la duit yg boleh dpt and kalo bernasib baik lagi, dapat rase makanan tu. Best ke x best tuuuhhh? XD

After all, yg paling penting, bantu la orang lain selagi anda mampu dengan cara yg baik. Yg memberi itu lagi baik drpd yg menerima dan hadiah yg paling manis sekali adalah sebuah kegembiraan yg tiada nilai. Senyum tiga! =3

Be Happy

As salam,,,

Hello everyone!

It has been a wonderful day to me. Alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah =') One of the best gift from HIM. The day before yesterday, result came out and i am happy for it. I longing such result for so long. I knew i will get it one day. But i know, ALLAH hears what i want and HE gives it because HE knows what best for me and what i need. Not to forget my parents who constantly gives Dua for me. Dua of parents especially from mothers are an absolute Dua. I thanked to them and i believe part of my result is coming from their Dua.

Congratulations to all of my friends. I know they already did the best! Whatever result you get, it was the best and don't fret. We still have another 5 semesters =)

The situation is normal when some of your friends get higher achievement then you do and you start feel envy or jealous. I do fall into such situation. I start to comparing myself with them. I start to questioning my ability. Where did i wrong? Why i can't get the same result like them? I had try my best but why? I have been into a school where most of the students are excellent students. They got 3.5 each of the semester. No kidding. Some of them get 100% for Add math while i fail for it! How can i not be jealous???

One day, i opened the Quran and i found this verse,,,

And do not wish for that by which Allah has made some of you exceed others. For men is a share of what they have earned, and for women is a share of what they have earned. And ask Allah of his bounty. Indeed Allah is ever, of all things, Knowing.

(Al-Nisa : 32)

 Dan janganlah kamu iri hati limpah kurnia yang Allah telah berikan kepada sebahagian dari kamu (untuk menjadikan mereka) melebihi sebahagian yang lain (tentang harta benda, ilmu pengetahuan atau pangkat kebesaran). (Kerana telah tetap) orang-orang lelaki ada bahagian dari apa yang mereka usahakan, dan orang-orang perempuan pula ada bahagian dari apa yang mereka usahakan; (maka berusahalah kamu) dan pohonkanlah kepada Allah akan limpah kurnianya. Sesungguhnya Allah sentiasa Mengetahui akan tiap-tiap sesuatu.

( 4 : 32 )

Then i pondered, do i have to get jealous with their result? No, i don't have to because in that verse teach me  that everyone will get what they have worked out. Effort what is important. Outcomes reflect your effort. In fact i should be happy because they are my friends and seeing them happy makes me happy. Well said Wafa, lolXD But there is an exception, if you are jealous make it as an inspiration to boost your spirit to achieve an excellent result for the next exam. Yeahhh!! =D

"Ilmu yang bermanfaat adalah ilmu yang diamalkan dalam kehidupan kita"

- Imam Al-Ghazali - 

p/s : Believe in HIM, remember HIM everyday, thanks to HIM, tell HIM, ask HIM, and smile.

Pelancongan Domestik

As salam,,,

Hi yalls!

Alhamdulillah, finally, the day has come. My parents coming today! Along with my bro and my aunty! Yeayeayeayeayeayeay!! Beselah,,,anak blajar kat Sarawak, alang2 tuh pergi la makan hangin sekali =P I tak kisah pun kalau my parents nak tiap2 minggu ke bulan ke datang makan angin kat Sarawak, (kalau ekao banyak duit xpo lah yo) because my parents, dyorang suke berjalan sebenarnyer. In fact when my sis and bro were little, my parents suke sgt bawak dyorang ni pergi jenjalan. But, when it comes to my childhood, hilang sudah suma bende itu. HahaXD I don’t mind. When you get old, mood2 nak jenjalan ni dah hilang. Mana nak larat pergi jauh2. Mengharapkan si anak yang membawa mereka pergi berjalan2. Kiranya, my parents dtg sini, I bawak pergi jenjalan la. Puas hati dapat tgk dyorang travel even though percutian domestik saja but what is worth is the happiness that they gain. I am glad, I am here at Sarawak so I can bring them to explore the Sarawak. I wish to bring them to rumah panjang ke, meet the peoples there, to see how beautiful Sarawak is. Maybe one day ke. =D

My mom always told me, “Nanti adik dah kerje jadi Felo ke nanti, bawaklah mak pergi jenjalan kat Sarawak,,,mana tahu adik dpt kerja kat Sabah ke, bawak mak pergi jenjalan kat sana pulak”. Mak sy suke sgt kalo sy jadi Felo, I don’t know why but I told my mom yg I nak jadi tutor. Last2 my mom kata, “Ha,takpelah,,,dah Rina minat yg tu.” Love you mom <3 nbsp="nbsp" p="p">

I dreams to bring my parent pergi China yg tempat2 China muslim tu. I know that they will love it. And I want to go to Forbidden City. To see the Ancient China. To see tempat tinggal Raja2 zaman Dinasti like Ching , Ming.  To see the place where the Concubines live before. The beautiful lakes and amazing architecture. To see the pintu gerbang that they use for the bride to came in into the Forbidden City. And bnyk la lagi. I like China’s History.  Last but not least, the food! lolXD

But before travel overseas, I wanted to travel around Malaysia first. Baru layak kan pergi luar Negara. Hehe~ Actually, doesn’t matter pun if you tak travel negeri2 yg ada kat Malaysia ni. But for me, see the Malaysia first. Then baru ada rase, wahhh,,,cantik nyer Negaraku ini. Yes! Memang cantik. The meaning of cantik for me maybe tak sama dengan orang lain kan. It depends. Lengkapkanlah dulu destinasi percutian domestik sebelum melengkapkan percutian ke luar Negara. Chehhh,,,what a description! lolXD

Now, when i am here at Sarawak, baru rase, bnyk lagi kat Malaysia ni yg ak tak explore. Serious. The negeri2 yg I dah lawat, Pahang, Kelantan, Terengganu, Melaka, Penang, Negeri Sembilan of course lahh kan XP and Sarawak. Sabah, Perlis, Perak, Kedah, Johor , I tak pernah lagi. Kesian kan,,,johor pun tak pernah. Bukan Johor I tak pernah tapi pernah sekali, beli langsir kat Tangkak masa umur 10 tahun tak silap la. Perak pun pernah, sebab rumah makcik I ada kat Tanjung Malim. Sabah, Insy-ALLAH, kalo diizinkan oleh ALLAH,,,mmg nak pergi since kawan pun ramai dari sana. My mom da approve kan dah utk I pergi bercuti kat Sabah.hehe=) Asalkan ada kawan2 yg pergi sekali.

P/S : I love Malaysia<3 nbsp="nbsp" p="p">

An answer that i need to find in my life.

As salam,,,

Here i am! Sitting on my favorite place in CAIS and all alone. Kesian nyer bunyi ae~ Yela, CAIS pun x ramai orang, brape kerat je yg dtg mentelaah buku. Reason why i came to CAIS bcoz nak internet laju je. Bole tgk youtube and tgk movies. Download some songs ka and read books. Since all my friend da sampai kat rumah, I still terpacak kat UNIMAS lagi. Never mind, I love being here anyway. But na jenjalan,,,hmm,,,oh ya, recently i just thought that i want keluarga angkat kat Sarawak ni. Senang skit, kalo pe2 hal jadi ke,,,at least ad org yg tgkkan. And one more thing, i hope to see how peoples here punye life in a family kan. I dont mind if i get a non-muslim nyer family. Lagi suke =) But nak cari nyer I don't know how. Hope somebody willing to help me. Mesti wonder kan why i like non muslim family angkat? Even though susah sbb you have to take care you nyer aurat and eating la and perform a prayer. Pastu rase bersalah pun ada la because of the differences. Tak try x thu kan? Well, i like to experience something different. I want to feel the differences.

Am i afraid? Yes. Am i excited? Yes.

I am afraid because i might getting away from what i supposed to do. Ok, senang citer tkut jauh dr ALLAH. Because u have been a  place where there is no one yg muslim and there is no one yg mengingatkan u about ALLAH. Lagipun, the way they live is far from a muslim family la kan. Takut terpengaruh. Yup. That yg I tkut. Same like I want to be an participant observer one day- Insy-ALLAH- where you have to live in a stranger place. A place that is differences from your way of life. To have to observe tu ok la kan but becoming the participant in their everyday life. That I risau. If some of their everyday life tu contradict to your religion mcm na? Takkan you na ikut? If you tak ikut, how you want to become a REAL participant observer then? you're not fully participate. I didn't find any of the answer yg dpt legakan hati I lagi. I don't want to think it susah because bile dah set kan mind susah, the consequences will be susah. It same when you want to judge people, once you da set kan mind you that people is tak baik la,jahat la. Benda baik dalam diri org tu or perkara baik yg org tu da buat you tak nampak dah.Sama jugak la kan, bila you kate diri you je yg betul, takde yg salah, mmg tak la nak nampak kesalahan sendiri dan susah nak terima teguran orang lain.

Tapi one thing yang I rase, na cari ALLAH tu, tak kisah pun kat mana you berada. Sebab ALLAH tu ada kat mana2 je. Sesetengah orang laen cara dia cari ALLAH tu, or islam tu sendiri. Tak boleh na kate jalan nak cari ALLAH tu fixed. Islam is flexible. Paling penting kene percaya dan yakin ALLAH tu and pray a lots. Ada orang jumpe islam tu kat tempat yg bukan muslim majority nyer. I pun pelik. Acamano tu? Hidayah ALLAH tu sgt luas. Kene cari. Kene usaha. I believe in that.

Kadang2 bile blajar antropologi and sosiologi ni sgt mencabar dan takut. Tak thu la kalo I sorang je yg rase. Because u might encounter something yang opposite dgn religion. Waktu tu la, otak I fikir punye fikir punye fikir. Kadang2 kecewa sebab agak sukar nak cari jawapan tapi I tahu, cannot give up because finally I dah jumpe course yg betul2 buat I enjoyed study. So, why should I stop? I believe sume masalah ada jalan penyelesaian and I should find it till I puas hati. Bukan senang nak cari satu subject yg you betul2 minat dan enjoyed. That what i feel la kan.

I just reached 20 years old. Still a lot of time for me to find the answer. Alhamdulillah, ALLAH bg bernafas lagi. I have to find as many experience as i can. Experience is the MOST VALUABLE thing yg boleh dapat free saje. Easy kan? =)

Marriage

As salam,,,

Howdy peeps!

Just this lately, i’ve been thinking about meaning of marriage. Yes, we are talking about marriage. Suke kan? Hehe~ This question came out while i’m reading the social sciences slide and been wondering about it for quite sometimes. Definition of marriage is:

“The union of a man & a woman, or various combinations thereof, living together in a sexual relationship with the expectation of producing offspring”

I will say that this definition is almost correct. When we come into the definition of something, it is difficult to produce a total correct definition of it. Trust me, in one of the lecture of Communication and Society, we have to define a chair and after we define it, but there must be lack of something. Thus, it is not totally wrong but almost correct. The same when we want to define Religion. According to Durkheim, one of the famous figures in ansos, stated that it is really hard to give a specific meaning to the word religion because we have to consider the cultural diversity.

For me marriage means to foster sense of safety, security and belonging. Well, of course we do have God who watches us 24 hours and totally safe, Insy-ALLAH but because of HIS love, He gives us someone that can take care of us in this dunya. He knows what we want and He actually fulfil it. When He will give it? We don’t know so be patient la kan. I pun tgh be patient ni ^^V Dont worry be happy. I know sometimes we tend to follow our desired and hard to control. We’re just human that why we have god to help us. Ask for his guidance and make duas everyday,everytime,anywhere in any languages ,English,BM,Sarawak ke,sabah ke,korea ke,jepun ke,,,He definitely will understand because He was perfect. Whatever that is exist in this world, He knows :D

My ustazah has told to us once, if you want to pray, no need to be formal, just talk like we talk to our parent ka,sibling ka...cam bese. Example, “Hari ni kan Ya ALLAH, ak rase hepy sgt sebabnyer ak dpt jawab exam dgn baik, Terima kasih ya ALLAH’’ ataupun yg ni, “Hari ni kan Ya ALLAH,,ak nampak dye senyum,,,suke2! Tp kan Ya ALLAH, ak tahu ak mesti jage hati ak ni,,Ya ALLAH maaf kalau ak melampaui batas, lindungilah hati ak ni ya ALLAH drpd perkara2 yg x baik.” Simple kan? J

We always read peoples’ post on FB saying that better you telling your feeling to ALLAH than the FB. It’s true but still no wrong in posting about your feeling or opinion onto something in FB but be control. Ustaz Don had mentioned about this issue, I know that most of us want to be a excellent muslim and mukmin but the capacity of each of us in doing something is different. When you want to say that you must only tell your feeling to ALLAH, looked at the subject or the people that you projected to. Is he or she someone who really pious? Or just orang bese? If he or she was a totally pious person, then go ahead with the statement. But if they were the latter, better telling them “it is ok to luahkan perasaan kat FB but must be choose and control.”

Actually i wanted to talked about marriage but tersasar jauh pulak.huu.Never mind, we can always continue. The most important thing that should have in a marriage is faith. Some of the married couples have to be far apart because of the work mostly. Away to do some research la kan,,,i think will become one of it...anyway, the role of faith played the important part here. I believe, as long as you believe in you partner, jauh mane pun terpisah, lama mane pun terpisah, sikda padam bara cinta dalam hati ya.

Marriage terbina atas dasar the understanding and the feeling of believe, secure you had for someone before marry with them. Understanding here mean you accept the way your partner is. Some peoples think that the more sameness you get with your partner such as hobby, food, drink ka, the more understanding you are or compatible. For me, it is ok if it was not the same because the different between you and the partner what make you more understand and compatible. Saling melengkapi dan memerlukan orang kate kan. Kalo dah dua2 asyik same je dari setiap sudut, bosan kot,,,dull, x interesting. But xde lah sume x same,mesti ada chemistry gak,,,mathematic ke,fizik ke,,,hahaXD  And that chemistry is something that will come when it is the time.

So,,,this is my opinion and principal. Different peoples, different principal, ways, opinion. Itulah ciri manusia kan, unik. Apa2 or mane2 pendapat sy raikan. Seronok dgr pendapat org boleh menambah ilmu J

p/s : 2 papers lagi,,,pastu abis exam!... Final sem 1 drpd 6 sem,,,hahaXD