Be modest and humble is good...

Today, as usual,my cousin and I goes to work.Basically when we're done,we will wondering around the place and sit anywhere fine spot.So,we sat on the cafeteria's chair but there are someone who really taking a deep sight on us.Well,i don't mind at first and i dont want it either.But then,thing become so annoying especially to my cousin.I come acrossed in front to the person and i smiled.I heard he said like this "Apa la budak ni merayau kat sini?"...hmm,it's none of your bussiness just mind your own! Then we flew to the other places and actually get back to the cafeteria to find something for lunch.The bad news is,the person is still there and i still dont care and again dont want it either.

I checked out what the menus for today lunch.While i checking,my cousin saw the person looking at me and she heard he saying,"Budak ni takde duit ke nak makan?"...it really get my cousin nerves for sure! She really wanted to tell him that we're a worker here who had a work to do! and not loitering here!! She pissed off.I felt odd when she pull my hand and going out from the cafeteria.Then,she said,"Aku benci betul!" with the angry looked.I said to her,"what?" Then she explained everything to me.I know how the feeling when someone looked down on you.Of course you will be mad at it even i am.It really taking her mood down for hours.She said that she detest when someone said that to us."Aku tak boleh betul la dengar orang cakap macam tu,macam la kita ni hina sangat! tak berpelajaran! Aku sakit hati tau tak! Aku nak je pergi bagi tahu orang tu yang kita ni kerja kat sini sementara nak tunggu SPM!" I just let the words blurted out from her mouth.

We believed that everything happened had their own meaning.A very deep one.Same like this situation too! They didnt know who we are and where we from and what we capable of.Human mouth cant never be ceased until the end of the world.The functionof mouth is to speak and we're given the chances to talk anything that we wanted.Anything,even bad or good.So,just let it be and be humble and modest.What people say doesn't matter.Indeed it hurts you.But from the pain only we can learn the meaning of life.If there is only joy in this world,human can be too ease at anything and never want to learn and will never move on onto the next stages.It may take hours,days,months or even years to heal your heart if you're in pain.Here is depend on each of the human.We all know that human is different from the others.Malay proverb state "Rambut sama hitam,hati lain-lain".That you have to learn by yourself how to endure pain.The one that can help you is yourself.The others are just giving you the support.

P/S: My teacher once give a talk about this.She said,(This happened on the Rasullullah time),there are a father and son with their cow.On the way their wanted to go to their destination,they make their cow as a transport,then come this peoples said to them,"How pitiful the cow is,how dare they are!" So,they walked.The come this peoples and said,"How dare the cow is! it let it master walked by foot.Then the father let his son to sit on the cow,then come this peoples and said,"How dare the son is! Letting his father walked by his own! They exchanged place,then come this peoples and said,"How dare the father is! Letting the son walked by his own!.Moral of the story is,peoples will never stop talking,they will talk and talk until their tired.We must endured by any mean and pray to ALLAH always...wallahualam.